Isivumelwano sokuxolelana

584 isivumelwano sokuxolelaUmxolela kanjani umuntu ngokwesimo sempilo yansuku zonke? Akulula kangako nakancane. Amanye amasiko anemikhuba yokuxolela njalo. Isibonelo, amaMaasai eTanzania enza lokho okubizwa nge-Osotua, okusho into efana "nesivumelwano". UVincent Donovan ulandisa ngendlela u-Osotua asebenza ngayo encwadini yakhe ebhaliwe ehehayo ethi Christianity Rediscovered. Uma ngabe icala lenziwe ngaphakathi komphakathi phakathi kwemindeni, lingaba nemiphumela emibi ebunyeni besizwe esiyimizulane sisonke. Ukuhlalisana ndawonye kusengozini.

Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthi bobabili abathintekayo empikiswaneni bahlanganiswe ngesenzo sokuxolelana. Umphakathi ulungisa isidlo lapho imindeni ethintekayo inikela khona izithako. Kokubili isisulu nesoni uqobo kumele bakwamukele futhi badle ukudla okulungiselelwe. Isidlo sibizwa ngokuthi "ukudla okungcwele". Umqondo walokhu ukuthi ukuxolelwa kuhlotshaniswa nokudla ukudla bese kuqala i-osotua entsha. Icacile futhi ilula ngokumangalisayo!

Ingabe usuhlanganyele ukudla okungcwele nomuntu ongamthandi noma owona kuye? Kuthiwani ngeSidlo Sakusihlwa Sokugcina? Ingabe isivumelwano esisha sentethelelo singenziwa phakathi kwakho nomuntu omonile noma owone kuwe ngesikhathi nigubha isidlo esingcwele ndawonye? “Ngakho-ke uma uletha umnikelo wakho e-altare, bese kuthi lapho kubonakala kuwe ukuthi umfowenu unokuthile ngawe, shiya lapho umnikelo wakho phambi kwe-altare, uhambe kuqala ubuyisane nomfowenu, andukuba uze, unikele umnikelo wakho. isipho” (Mathewu 5,23-24)

Kuthiwani ngomhlangano wokudla ndawonye "ukudla okungcwele"? Noma ingabe uphethe intukuthelo efanayo kusuka kusakramente elilodwa kuya kokulandelayo? UDonovan uphawula ngesiko lamaMaasai: "Ukushintshaniswa kokudla okungcwele kungubufakazi obuvuselelwe bokuxolelwa." Kuyisibusiso esikhulu kangakanani lapho singabhalisa ngamandla eNkosini yethu noMsindisi, njengoba kuyalelwe esicashunweni esingenhla.

nguJames Henderson